
St. Thomas More
Roman Catholic Church
Saintly Sips
with Deacon Ken



Saintly Sips with Deacon Ken, will be a new, short, weekly reflection, a “sip” of sorts from scripture, some great literary work, spiritual writings, or just some musings for you to savor, like taking a sip of a fine wine or a rich cup of smooth Jamaican Blue Mountain coffee.

"SIP, SWISH, SWALLOW"
I have always been fascinated by the experience of tasting. Whether it is a rich glass of red wine or a well-crafted single malt whisky. There is something almost contemplative about the process. A Cabernet Sauvignon, for instance, can unfold layers of black currant, black cherry, or blackberry on the palate, while offering hints of vanilla, tobacco, baking spices, chocolate, and toast on the nose. A Highland whisky brings its own character: honey, caramel, dried fruit, perhaps apples or pears, and even a faint trace of salty coastal air. Each sip is an invitation to slow down, to notice, to remember. Our senses engage deeply, and often these flavors stir memories of people, places, and moments long past.
The act itself is deliberate. We take a sip, swish it gently, and then swallow. In doing so, we engage the full capacity of our senses . . . sweet, sour, salty, bitter, and umami . . . while our sense of smell enriches the experience even further. What might seem simple becomes layered and complex, rewarding patience and attention.
In many ways, our prayer life can follow a similar rhythm. Too often, prayer becomes hurried or routine, something we feel obligated to complete rather than an encounter to savor. But what if we approached prayer as we would a fine wine or whisky?
First, we “take a sip.” This might be a short passage of Scripture, a line from the Psalms, or a simple phrase such as “The Lord is my shepherd.” Rather than rushing forward, we pause. Then we “swish;” we turn the words over in our minds, noticing their texture, their meaning, their personal resonance. What is God saying here? What emotions arise? What memories or desires are stirred?
Finally, we “swallow.” We allow the words to descend from our minds into our hearts. This is where meditation deepens into transformation. The Word is no longer just read; it is received. It begins to shape how we think, how we act, how we love.
Different forms of prayer offer different “flavor profiles.” Vocal prayer gives us structure and familiarity, like a well-known vintage. Visual prayer engages our imagination, drawing us into sacred scenes. Meditative prayer invites reflection and insight, while contemplative prayer leads us into quiet union with God, beyond words.
Each method has its time and purpose, just as different drinks suit different occasions. The key is not to rush, but to savor; to trust that in slowing down, we encounter more deeply.
In both tasting and prayer, the richness lies not merely in the object itself, but in the attention we bring. When we learn to sip, swish, and swallow in our spiritual lives, prayer becomes less about obligation and more about communion . . . an experience to be savored, one moment at a time.
God Bless you all;
Deacon Ken
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Deacon
Ken
Deacon Ken Saveth
St. Thomas More Catholic Church
2720 S. 129th E Avenue
Tulsa, OK 74134
918.437.0168
